IN HER WORDS

Why do some women pick the wrong guys?

As a little kid, you have these little meaningless relationships. But when you get older and more responsabilities come along and relationships dont come as easy as when we were younger. More attachments and emotions are involved.I feel almost as if I've had my share of assholes that maybe i feel as if it is only normal to have shitty relationships where you feel like you have to make the person a good one to you. As if you have to prove to someone they should be good to you. Only to relize that they should be good to you first cause you are not what caused them to be an asshole. Getting into a relationship i feel you should go into it without the extra baggage of crap from the previous relationship. All the extra baggage does is help ruin it. One should love like they have not been hurt. Every situation is different and the baggage is what makes it the same story with a different character.

which brings me to ...When someone in a past relationship hurts you, you cant bring it to the next. Say someone is an ass hole to you. Which in turn you start acting like a bitch to him. You leave him but the next dude you go to is so0o nice but for somereason or another you still have your guard up and you still act like a bitch to this undeserving individual. You cant help but be this way because of fear that he will be like the other. Little do you know you are turning this gentalman into an asshole. So now he starts being an ass hole and you both are done. Where does this go ? He now thinks all girls are bitches so, he now keeps his guard up and acts like an ass hole. Its almost like an endless cycle. The only way to end it is to really love like no one has hurt you right?

which leads me to say what if you do love like you've never been hurt...But somehow you still always get these assholes...then maybe do not be afraid to love?. One attracts the people that they are around. You now are blinded by fear of pain that all you do is attract the pain and you push away the ones that can potentially be the good guys...

Post from a good friend, Eyeza
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